And this applies as much to workplaces as it does to
personal and social relationships.
Try this for a moment.
Sit quietly for 30 seconds. Relaxed. Close your eyes (if
possible), and think about your boss/ manager from your first job.
What memory comes to your mind first?
Is it any particular scene?
How did it make you feel then?
How does it make you feel right now?
Describe it 1-2 words. Say it to yourself.
Encouraged, Hopeful, Elated, Smart, Recognized, Insulted, Discouraged,
Angry, Worthless, Stupid, or just anything?
You may try this with other relations too - parents, colleagues,
clients, teachers, in-laws, etc.
What’s interesting is that, you may have had hundreds of
interactions with that person over the years. Some good, some bad. Yet certain
moments stay deeply etched in memory because of how strongly they made you
feel.
That emotion associated with that person is how you will identify
them with. You may forget the exact words spoken, but you rarely forget how
someone made you feel after speaking to them.
Why does that happen?
This is not just memory or first impression. It is ‘Emotional
memory’.
Emotional memory refers to events that evoke strong
positive or negative emotions, which are encoded deeply and recalled more
vividly than neutral events.
In simple words, Emotional Memory is when emotional
experiences become deeply linked to people and relationships. It refers to memories linked to strong emotions (either positive or negative), which tend to stay with us longer because they are processed more deeply than ordinary experiences.
We, as human beings, can have an invisible impact on others.
Even after an interaction feels over to us, a part of it may still remain
deeply embedded in someone’s memory. Sometimes, a single interaction changes
how a person sees themselves for years.
And perhaps that is why kindness, respect, encouragement,
and empathy matter far more than we realize, in workplaces as much as personal and
social lives.
Because people may leave organizations, meetings,
classrooms, or relationships.
But the emotions attached to those experiences often stay
with them for years.
Sometimes for life.
What is that emotion that you would want to be remembered
for?
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